Jessica stayed with her Nana last week and she was on their computer... well she decided to email everyone she knew... one of those people was her dad. Now the last time she went to his house was in MARCH... I sent him an email in May about Jessica playing volleyball and the next day he shows up at school to eat lunch with her... like whoa i have a daughter... i forgot! Since then she's stayed with her nana a few times and one of those times he came by there b/c he assumed she was going to his house too... she didn't. So anyways back to last week.... she emailed her dad and over the emails he asked her if she wanted to eat lunch today for her b'day. So thats where she's at right now. I'm curious if she hadn't of emailed him would they be eating lunch right now? probably not! And I'm not jealous... thats not it at all!!! I'm mad b/c he's the adult and he's the one that should be making AND KEEPING contact with his daughter!!!!!! When she was over at her Nana's she made the comment that she hadn't heard from him since May her nana said 'that's pretty sad jessica that your daddy hasn't called you'.... Atleast she gets it!!!!!
The last thing in the world i want is for Jessica to get hurt... but i'm telling you... I'd rather him be an active father than a half ass one! I would not have a problem with him seeing her all the time or calling her but this show up whenever crap is not right! He needs to wake up!
You know what bothers me... i know this may sound silly but it bothers me..... Who's gonna walk her down the aisle?
4 comments:
Matthew will walk her down the aisle. He's been more of a father to her. And will always be a better dad.
I'm sure that when the time comes everyone will support her is whatever decision she makes. I agree with the others that it will probably be matt though. He has been there with her through alot!
It doesn't make a Father by producing a child; it takes being there and raising that child to be a Father. My bet is on Matthew by far!!
YOu know that is so far away and so much can change by that time. Who knows what her relationship will be with him by that time. The one thing that won't change is that whatever choice Jessica makes when that time comes - you and Matthew will be there to support her. I know Matthew would be beaming proud to walk her down the aisle.
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